Connecting Your Fitness

I have been teaching a class at Quinnipiac University I designed with the title: The Health Benefits of the Creative Process. In our class, we explore the personal factors that make a person who they are. These factors, cognitive, affective, physical, and spiritual, are in constant interaction with the environment and behavioral responses of the person, and each element influencing each other with the main goal to find balance. Think of it as a table with four legs, each one of them, a personal factor. The table is on a surface which is the environment. The table reacts to the environment according to the balance of its legs and the pressure set on it. That is its behavior. No table is completely balance, and no environment is completely and perfectly balance. Therefore, a person needs to figure out where their personal table seeks acceptable balance.

Connecting Your Fitness 

Fitness is an important part of a healthy life. Fitness might seem purely physical, but you could be missing on the beauty of connecting your fitness with the cognitive, affective, and spiritual factors. Everything a person approaches and engages in becomes a partial endeavor if transfer does not take place. Transfer is key to seek balance. Transfer refers to conveyance between one thing and another. Most people understand the physical benefits of keeping up with a fitness routine, but how does it connects with your mind, your emotions, and your spirit?

Cognitive

The cognitive factor relates to the mind, to how humans process information, design and interpret symbols and ideas of things past, present, and future. Humans have the capacity to see beyond the current circumstances and prepare for multiple scenarios that may or may not come. For some, cognition leads transfer. People see, understand, internalize, and make the adjustments in behavior through thinking. This might be why some people exercise in the first place. A person understands the need to exercise as a mean to be healthy.

The mind leads the body to produce some effort to workout. There is planing, scheduling, finding the right place and the right workouts, the right gear, equipment, and motivation. The way a person thinks about a workout could be considered, based on the principle of transfer, a way to reset the mind in how to face and engage in other situations and challenges. Fitness is a vehicle to understand how to pursue greater goals through short term goals, perseverance, and grit. When working out, consider that you are not only doing it for your body but also for your mind.

Affective

The affective factor play an integral part of life. Emotions makes us human. We feel. It connects us in a deeper level with people, things, places, events, and memories. Emotions give meaning to what we do, want, and need. Feeling allows a person to perform and behave to a different level. Fitness is a tool to mold emotions, to control them, to use them to our advantage, to connect, to fuel our intentions. 

Two characters come to mind when thinking about using your emotions: Rocky Balboa and Bruce Lee. Rocky is a very emotional character. His emotions control him and stop him to pursue victory. Then, at some point, he takes hold of his emotions and a new found strength and sense of purpose fires him up to win. Bruce Lee, in his character of Lee in Enter the Dragon, teaches a disciple to add emotional content to his movements digging in to find meaning to each one. He emphasizes on feeling. 

Connect your fitness with your emotions. Engage your workout with emotional content. Allow yourself to feel beyond your body. Make every second count and make it meaningful. It is a moment in time that will not be repeated. Transfer to other moments in life. A person can let emotions take control, or can control them, enjoy them, and use them as fuel. 

Spiritual  

A lot can be said about a person based on their character. Character is the first thing that shows when a person is confronts a workout. Character shows how a person perseveres in the face of a challenge. I like to think that if I quit on a workout because ‘it is too hard’, or because I am tired, or not motivated, my spirit will easily give up too when faced with trials and temptations. The spirit allows a sense of awareness of inner connection and connecting outwardly as well. The spirit perceives beyond the rationality of the mind and above feelings. It sees the unseen and understands beyond logic, and reaches deeper than emotions.

Each part of a workout is a tool to prepare the spirit to perceive and grow. If a person quits easily or is afraid to engage on a workout, it is possible that other aspects of life receive the same treatment and level of engagement. It is possible that facing choices, a person will choose the easy way out with the false hope of achieving results they did not work for. Fitness efforts can  transfer to our spiritual journey. The spiritual journey connects with eternity one step at a time.

Balance the legs of your table, face your environment, resist the pressure, feel and enjoy, think about it, and grow your character. Give yourself a chance to explore a creative process that could bring health benefits beyond physical by connecting your fitness.

 

Good Enough

“You are not good enough.”

Maybe you have heard these words. Perhaps these words were directed at you at some point in your life and you began living by them. It is possible that these words were defining your identity and set the tone for your pursues in life. I have my share of that. Being good enough has been a struggle for me for many years.

I have never been an athlete or athletic in my life. I am thankful that now in my 40s I can do some stuff and be healthy. I have to enjoy that now. Soon, I guess, I will be slowing down in the natural process of aging. I was that kid who would stay home playing with action figures and letting my imagination create new worlds. I was always a nerd; but not nerdy enough to be accepted by them. Yes, I am smart, but not smart enough to be considered smart.

I am a good husband, but maybe not good enough. I am a good father, but not good enough. I am pretty sure I am not a good friend. Otherwise, I would have friends to hang out with. I am a good teacher, but not good enough. We call it ‘adjunct’. Which is fine because I feel like an outsider must of the time. I am good enough to participate, but not good enough to belong. I am a good artist, but not good enough to be successful or at least respected as such. I am a good son, a good citizen, a good person; but not good enough.

When it comes to sin, I am good enough. I am a good sinner. I am so good at that, that Christ’s grace reached me and saved me. He accepted me and made me His own. I belong with Him. I am a good Christian, but not good enough, but I am so good at been weak that God’s power can become perfect in my weakness. I am thankful for everything He let me be not good enough, so He can be Good Enough for me.

My First at 43

Yes, I did it! I thought I would not, but I did. No, it is not a mid-life crisis thing. It was a gift. It is something I will cherish forever. I had my first tattoo at 43. Our firstborn just turned 18. When he was 16 he said all he wanted for his 18th birthday was to get a tattoo with his dad. While I was terrified of the idea, I calmed myself thinking that he would change his mind. He did not. As his birthday approached it was getting real. We were getting a tattoo together.

So we did. There is a sense of accomplishment, deeper bonding, and liberation which is hard to explain for me yet. I will eventually find the vocabulary and articulation of how it feels and what it means for me. For now, I know that somethingchanged; and it is not just ink on a small skin area of my body. Something changed inside.

Our son has friends and he could ask any of them to be there with him, but he asked me, his father. That is in itself beautiful to me. We explored something new for us together and went through it. Nevertheless, the experience taught me a lot about my own personal biases and my need to see people the way Jesus sees them and sees me. Chains of biases, prejudice, and judgement inside of me were broken. It is more profound than ink in the skin.

It is still surreal to look at my shoulder thinking that this Superman symbol will be on my shoulder for the rest of my life. It is also special in so many ways. Those who know me know about my Superman thing, and those who have heard me talk about it know the spiritual significance it has for me. Superman has always been a representation of both Christ and us in his joined mission of restoration. It is an honor for me, in more ways than one, to have the Kryptonian shield of hope from the house of El permanently on me.

The Brain In My Brain

Instructional design is a field that depends on other fields to expand its understanding of how people learn in order to make the learning experience more effective and meaningful. In my practice I focus on Social Learning Theory (SLT) expanding its focus from the cognitive domain and psychomotor skills to a more holistic view of who we are while keeping the essence of the theory. I see the current view a little limiting since we are not just computers with arms and legs. Our physical domain is much more than psychomotor skills. Our bodies capture sensations and and it is the location of every abstract function we engage with. It feels, it gets sick, it shows the product of happiness, sadness, worry, to name a few. We also have feelings and emotions, therefore, I consider the affective domain a very important aspect of our humanity. Moreover, our connection to ourselves, everything that surrounds us, and things unseen, is also under consideration under the spiritual domain. We are the product of the constant interaction between cognitive, affective, physical, and spiritual factors (CAPS) and the interaction of these factors with the environment and our behavioral responses. For this, my approach to instructional design depends on natural sciences, social sciences, art, and humanities and the ability to connect the dots to focus on effective learning practices.

Lately, as I prepare to engage in a research project, I’ve been studying some neuroscience to understand the neurobiology of learning and trauma. In previous years, the brain was considered a ‘black box’ where stuff was processed and things happened, but without clear understanding of how it worked, or at least not many people wanted to get involved in explaining it. With advances in MRI technology, neuroscientists have been able to map areas of the brain and pinpoint specific functions that are of great importance for learning, for understanding trauma, and for the field of instructional design. Learning about the brain has been much more interesting than I ever thought possible. I can’t wait to shape up this research project and start the writing process. I also can’t wait to share it with all of you. Until then, I will be exploring the brain in my brain.

 

Define Who You Are

Who are you?

This is a very common question that in reality is not so easy to answer. Answering that question is much more than just saying your name. It is so much more than functional social labels you identify with. Titles or positions won’t be enough to answer this question. All your ID cards together can’t answer it either. So, how do you answer the question?

You are your personal factors: your cognitive, affective, physical, and spiritual factors. I call it C.A.P.S. You are what you think and how you think, what you feel, what your body brings, and the essence that brings it all to life. But that is not all. Your personal factors have been interacting with your environment from the time you were born, and some will agree that even before you were born. Your environment changed conditions and this adds to the complexity of the interactions with your C.A.P.S.

It certainly doesn’t stop there. The interaction between C.A.P.S. and the environment… your behavior. Your response to the environmental cues and how the environment responded to you shaped who you are. Behavior and environmental responses are observable in most cases and often the focus of change. However, if you look deeper, the way you behave is guided by the way you think.

If you try ‘behavior modification’ without changing the way you think, eventually, you will fall back into the behaviors you are more used to. If you change the way you think, your values and beliefs, and seek new empowering life, your behavior will change with it. As a consequence, you are going to be well prepared to influence your environment more than what the environment will influence you.

Define who you are.